Discovery

Hey peeps,

sorry for the hiatus again. My life has been boring after internship. Gonna look for a new job soon. Anyway, Outbar had their anniversary last week and I made an amazing discovery. I went inside around 8pm and we got some drinks.

Suddenly, about an hour later, I saw this familiar guy walking in. He was with another. This guy looked familiarly buff and tan. Then I realised it was Chris. OMG, he is gay.... All this while, I couldn't tell. I mean, my gaydar isn't very good but him, gay just didn't register.

I stared at him and he looked at my direction briefly and turned away. I guess this is mostly the AJ community. We forget people fast... But who am I to beAJ friends with him eh? We left aaround 11 cause the rest had to go to work on the next day.

Sad news

So guys, I have not been blogging but I had been caught up  . I have known him for about a year so we were close at some point of time. A few weeks ago, he called me and we met up.

Strangely, he was always this energetic guy and was always lively. I thought he was sick or so. I didn't know it was serious until he told me. He hesitated at first but I noticed something was wrong with him.

Finally he told me the real deal. He got infected with HIV. Both him and his bf, now ex, were tested positive and thus this caused him to break up. I have no idea how to respond initially. What do you actually say to someone who just told you they're positive?

Slowly, he revealed that he came to terms with it and started his medication already. All I could do is not judge and yes, I've been accompanying him for quite some time and we went to watch some movies together.